Husband and Wife talking during sex

During sex husband and wife should be talking , saying things like

  My Orgasm is still far away .... 

Please touch me here......

Not so hard .... 

slower please .... 

Do you want to be on top ?.... 

I'm starting my orgasm .... 

How can I help you ?..

A husband may wonder " Does she prefer deep entry , or only a few centimeters? "  How  can he find out ?  Just ask her! 

A wife may wish to try a new position , but she thinks, "Maybe my husband is not in a mood to try something new". How can she find out ?  Just ask him!

After her orgasm, a wife may wish to say , "Let's see if we can both have another orgasm. Please keep on moving. Or if you wish, love my clitoris with your fingers " 

Since you are married, you are free to say such things to each other. So don't be shy. You will find that you enjoy hearing each other's voice during sex .

Pregnancy Morning Sickness

Question :  I'am now three months pregnant and I have suffering morning sickness from the very beginning . Is there anything I can do to ease it ? 

Answer :  Take heart , it will almost certainly soon be over . Morning sickness is much more common in a first pregnancy and usually stops soon after the first three months have passed. If you have some tea and toast in bed first thing in the morning it will give your stomach something to work on before you start the day . Get up slowly and in good time so that you don't have to rush to start work . Although there are many quite innocent preparation that your doctor can prescribe for you to use at this stage in your pregnancy , it really is best to marriage without any medication if you possibly can .

My breasts became very hard and sore just after my baby was born

Question :  My breasts became very hard and sore just after my baby was born . Why was this ? 

Answer :  A few days after your baby was born the milk supply began . This happens so swiftly that the breasts swell up and become hard and sore . This is called engorgement . It can also happen to women who stop breast feeding , or whose baby has missed a feed .

Pregnancy test to be positive even if you are not pregnant

Question : Is it possible for pregnancy test to be positive even if you are not pregnant ?

Answer :  Yes , it is , though it is unusual . There are two reasons. The first is if you have had a very early spontaneous miscarriage ; this happens in 15 per cent of all conceptions. These very sensitive tests will diagnose pregnancy early and then you will go on a week or so later to have a normal period . The second reason for a positive test is very rare and occurs where the test is reflecting high levels of hormones which are being made from a very rare womb cancer called choriocarcinoma. Anyone who persistently has positive test, and who is not obviously pregnant, should discuss the findings with her doctor as matter of urgency .

Gradually stop Menses losing a lot of weight

Menses gradually stopped over the last few months and she is also losing a lot of weight

Question : I have a 17 years old daughter who has been menstruating regularly for two years . Her periods gradually stopped over the last few months and she is also losing a lot of weight . She seems quite lively and doesn't  want to go to the doctor , but should I insist ?

Answer : The clue here may be her loss of weight . It is possible that she may be anorexic , because one of the first things to go in this condition are the periods . Try to persuade rather than insist , that she sees a doctor because her condition should be checked out . Do watch carefully what she actually eats-not what she says she eats .

Suffering very heavy bleeding

Question : Although my periods have been fairly normal for the last the few years , just recently I have been suffering very heavy bleeding . I am now 48 , so is this a sign of the menopause ?

Answer : Continuous heavy or painful bleeding is not a sign of the menopause and must be reported to your doctor and investigated . It is almost always due to quite innocent conditions , but this type of bleeding can lead to quite severe anemia . 

Preparing for first sex

Preparing for first sex

After the wedding when you and your husband/wife are alone in a bedroom,  we suggest that you begin your marriage with simple prayer saying, "Dear Lord,  thank s a for giving us to each other.  In all the years of our marriage we want to love and enjoy each other With joy we will serve you together in our church and in the world 

After prayer,  relax.  Talk in a care-free way and even laugh together.  You have nothing to worry about.  And you don't need to hurry.  This is an evening for you to enjoy!  

Check the door to be sure it is locked. (A woman cannot relax if she fears that someone could enter the room.)  Then you are ready for an exciting experience undressing!  For a new husband and wife who are virgins,  undressing in front of each other is a special joy.  

After hugging and kissing,  each of you can take one piece of clothing off the other,  and after more kissing remove another piece,  until are completely naked.  you Undressing does not need to be done in the dark.  Since you are married,  you have no reason to be embarrassed

Sex before marriage

Sex before marriage is beautiful.  Humans cannot not find true joy by breaking God's laws Happy are the people who obey God by saying no to sex before marriage On their wedding night,  they don't worry about their lack of experience.  In fact,  the groom is happy that his bride has not experienced other men,  and she is glad that he never tried other girls.  

A virgin bride and virgin groom have the very,  very,  special joy of learning together from no one except each other. 

 Rhoda told us, "Next month is my wedding,  but I've had sex with other guys,  and my boyfriend has had sex with other girls.  We wish we were virgins.  What can we do ?

 We replied, "Repent.  Receive eternal life by trusting Christ.  He will help your marriage.  Yet,  you will still have some problems caused by your past sexual sins.Therefore encourage your children to remain virgins until marriage