Preparing for first sex
After the wedding when you and your husband/wife are alone in a bedroom, we suggest that you begin your marriage with simple prayer saying, "Dear Lord, thank s a for giving us to each other. In all the years of our marriage we want to love and enjoy each other With joy we will serve you together in our church and in the world
After prayer, relax. Talk in a care-free way and even laugh together. You have nothing to worry about. And you don't need to hurry. This is an evening for you to enjoy!
Check the door to be sure it is locked. (A woman cannot relax if she fears that someone could enter the room.) Then you are ready for an exciting experience undressing! For a new husband and wife who are virgins, undressing in front of each other is a special joy.
After hugging and kissing, each of you can take one piece of clothing off the other, and after more kissing remove another piece, until are completely naked. you Undressing does not need to be done in the dark. Since you are married, you have no reason to be embarrassed